What is my marriage is on the rocks because of my mother?

As an AI language model, I cannot know any personal information about you or your mother. However, I can provide some general knowledge about how such a situation can arise.

Sometimes the involvement of parents can interfere with their children's marriages. It can be particularly problematic if one spouse is seen as overly reliant on their parent or in a constant tug of war between their spouse and the family they grew up in. This can lead to issues of jealousy, resentment, and mistrust in the marriage.

If a mother either gets too closely involved in her adult child's marriage, constantly criticizes the spouse, or always wants to prioritize her own needs and desires over those of her child's partner, it could lead to a breakdown in the marriage.

Communication is key in this situation. It is important for all parties to talk to each other (preferably with a third party) and express their thoughts and feelings. The mother needs to recognize that her child is an adult and that their marriage is their own, while the couple needs to acknowledge that a balance needs to be found between their own needs and those of their extended family.

Marriage counseling can also be helpful in assisting both parties in sorting out the issues they face and finding ways to move forward.